
Fessey Wyatt |
The alumni relations staff has called it a day. High atop
Emerald Hill, the white, antebellum mansion--home to the APSU
National Alumni Association--stands quiet and stately.
Taking a seat on the bench after a long day of work, the
attractive, blonde-haired woman breathes deeply and smiles. She
relaxes as if she's in her favorite lounge chair. Totally at
ease. Totally at home.
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To alumni who faithfully read "Austin Peay," the face of Fessey Wyatt
('75) is as familiar as family.
Throughout the years, if there were a need for someone to chair
a committee or decorate for an event, she's always first in line
to help, regardless of how menial the task. Few alumni have given
as much time and effort to the alumni association as she. Why?
She laughs and says, "Doug Barber ('71) (former alumni
director) got me involved with the alumni association initially,
and LaRae (Davenport, '99) keeps me going. They always made the
work so much fun.
"There have been days when my time at Emerald Hill was the
only sane part of my life. When things were stressful, coming here
was an escape. Being with people I enjoy..."
Even excluding all the work she does for APSU, Wyatt's life is
busy by anyone's standards. She has taught physical education,
currently at Hazelwood Elementary School, for 15 years. In the
middle of her teaching career, she took off 10 years during which
she built a successful career in insurance sales. In 1990, she was
named Insurance Woman of the Year by the Clarksville chapter, in
addition to receiving many awards for insurance sales. But she
returned to teaching in 1994.
Throughout her life, she's been involved in her community and
church. Among her activities, she was president of Insurors of
Clarksville during 1988-90 and active for years in the Clarksville
Area Chamber of Commerce, serving as membership chair in 1994-95.
She was a committed member of the Downtown Civitan Club during
1987-94.
Wyatt was elected president of the APSU National Alumni
Association in 1998 and agreed to serve a two-year term ending in
Summer 2000. Previously, the APSUNAA president served a one-year
term. According to Wyatt, by the time the president learned the
job, it was time for him or her to step aside. A two-year term
enables the president to establish goals and be around to ensure
and enjoy follow-through.
Wyatt was president of the Montgomery County Chapter of the
National Alumni Association during 1993-95, and she has chaired
almost every alumni committee, including a stint in 1996 as
overall Homecoming chair.
According to her, her tendency to get involved in volunteer
work is a reflection of her grandmother. With obvious pride, she
says, "Daddy's mother, Mary Jim Marshall, was active in
everything in the area. She was the state district chair for
District II of Farm Bureau. Remember, during those days Farm
Bureau was considered mainly an organization for men. Sometimes
she took me along to meetings. She made me see how important
volunteer work is."
On top of her job and community activities, Wyatt is the mother
of three grown children: Johnny, a coach and teacher in
Clarksville; Elizabeth, a military wife in Germany; and Lauren, a
freshman at APSU. Wyatt's husband, John ('60), has two grown
children, Merri Scott Ekel, who currently attends APSU, and
Andy ('90). She is grandmother of six and step-grandmother of four.
Among the 10 grandchildren are two sets of twins.
"Christmas at our house is a hoot. There's 'his' and 'mine.' But they all get along so well.
'Our' baby is Festus," she says, with a slow smile. "A Doberman--a big
baby."
Since she has been involved with APSU for so many years, Wyatt
has a unique insider/outsider perspective of the University. She
says, "We've made a lot of progress since I was a student. The
University is getting some nice, new buildings; enrollment and
private support have increased. As Austin Peay continues to move
forward, I don't want its leaders to forget the importance of the
University's history."
Wyatt defines herself, to a large degree, by history--the
history of her ancestors. It's her treasured legacy. Ask about "the
mill" and her face lights up and, without realizing it, her
Southern accent gets slower, thicker. Sweet molasses on buttermilk
biscuits.
Although Ringgold Mill was built in the mid-1800s, Wyatt's
great-grandfather, Samuel Dawson Durrett, and R.D. Fort bought it
in 1907. At the time, there were many mills operating along the
swiftly running forks of Red River. Ursula Smith Beach, county
historian, recalls, "Out of the Durrett and Fort ownership, there
came a special brand of excellent flour bearing their initials 'D&F
Flour.'"
In 1919, Ringgold Mill became the sole property of the Durrett
family where it remained for three generations until it closed in
1974.
Wyatt and her parents lived with her grandparents, Mr. and Mrs.
Dawson Winfield Durrett, in the brick house at the mill until
Wyatt was four at which time her grandparents moved to another
house. Wyatt and her parents continued to live in the home near
the mill until she was in the 6th grade--so she grew up loving
Ringgold Mill and the swimming hole created by its dam where she
learned to swim. As the granddaughter of the owner of "the mill," she was
special--the child-princess of an imaginary
kingdom of lush green trees that were perfect to hide behind,
barefoot-trodden paths winding away to wherever a child's
imagination wanted to go--and, always, always, the cool,
mill-stream water in which to splash or just glide beneath the
surface like some exotic fish.
Even before that, the two-story log house built by her
grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Winfield Durrett, was a thing of wonder
to her. In 1930 Winfield Durrett chose a site on a sloping hill
near Highway 41 in Montgomery County. It was on this hillside he
planned to build his home. He bought chestnut trees, cut them down
and let them dry for a year before he moved them to the hillside.
He confiscated stones from an old family home, chose red oak for
the flooring and white oak for the ceiling beams.
In 1932 construction began on the large log house. It had 12
rooms standing two stories high, plus a basement and an attic. On
the first floor was a den, living room, dining room, breakfast
room, kitchen, bath and utility room. On the second floor were
four bedrooms, including the master bedroom with a fireplace, two
bathrooms and a screened porch running the length of the
downstairs front porch.
The interior exposed logs, which created the walls of the home,
were hand-sanded and chinked with cement. The ceiling beams were
hand-hewn white oak. Seasoned red oak was used for the floors. The
living room fireplace was built by a stone mason willing to work
for food. It was the Great Depression and times were hard.
The family moved into the home in 1933, living there for nine
years before the log home and the land around it were taken by the
federal government for the construction of Camp Campbell. Thus, in
1942 the family moved back to the Durrett family home adjacent to
Ringgold Mill.
Although the beloved log house was lost to the family, Wyatt
takes pride in the fact it still stands, now serving as a home to
various generals assigned to Fort Campbell.
Speaking of her grandparents, Wyatt says, "They were
awesome...always there for me. They had character. I never heard
Pappa say anything bad about anyone. He was good to people.
Everyone in the community respected him.
"My grandmother, Mary Fessey Durrett, played the organ. They
made sure I was in church every Sunday."
Her faith in God, birthed at tiny, historic Bethel Methodist
Church near Gate 3 of Fort Campbell, has helped support her
through various difficult times. In Summer 1998, shortly after she
had undergone major surgery, her husband, John, was diagnosed with
advanced non-Hodgkins lymphoma, which is cancer of the body's
lymphatic system that often spreads to the body's organs.
She says, "We get through it together. We decided to stay 'up' for each other.
I'll be honest--at first we were scared,
but when we met John's doctor and then when we went for his first
chemo and saw all the people sitting together--laughing and
talking--we knew we were going to lick this thing."
During this battle that resulted in the inevitable
re-evaluating of what's really important in life, they
rediscovered the joy Wyatt knew when, as a little girl, she
splashed and swam in the cool waters of the old swimming hole at
Ringgold Mill.
The couple bought a houseboat, "Sharecropper," the nickname
of her husband who farms "on the side." The beautiful, sleek
houseboat is docked at Paris Landing Marina on Kentucky Lake. Most
weekends they load up the car and head to the lake where they link
up with family and friends.
She says, "Usually, we take the boat out with friends on other
houseboats. We all tie-up together in some cove for the weekend.
It's so peaceful, so relaxing. We just have fun."
A carefree childhood filled with memories of swimming in the
cool water of Ringgold Mill pond...happy hours now floating and
swimming in Kentucky Lake.
Throughout history, immersion in water has represented rebirth,
renewal.
For Wyatt, it still does.